Your Foreign-Language Personality Becomes Smaller When You Speak Only With the Words You Know
There is something strange that happens when many people start speaking a foreign language. They become simpler. Not intellectually. Not emotionally. Not as human beings. But in the version of themselves that reaches the other person. A thoughtful person may suddenly sound primitive. A funny person may stop being funny. Someone who is subtle, ironic or emotionally precise in their own language may become painfully direct. And very often, we explain this with one simple sentence: “My English isn't good enough yet.” That may be true. But I think something else is happening too. The problem begins when we stop asking: “What do I want to express?” and start asking: “What am I able to say?” Your Vocabulary Starts Choosing Your Thoughts In your own language, you have a thought first. Then you express it. You may hesitate. You may reformulate. You may search for a better word. But the thought remains yours. In a foreign language, many learners reverse this process....